Cruising for couples: Planning your dream together
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The Two Can Sail approach: Successful cruising couples operate as a team. Clear communication, preparation, and practice help turn stressful moments into coordinated action.
Key Topics for Cruising Couples
1. Communication and Teamwork
- Partners may view the same situation differently
- Review the plan before starting the maneuver
- Define each person’s role clearly
- Use calm, direct communication
- Preparation and compromise help reduce stress
2. MOB for Couples Immediate Response
- Shout and keep sight
- Throw flotation fast
- Turn into the wind
- Stop as close to the MOB as possible
3. Mooring for Two: Before You Approach
- Decide who handles the helm and the lines
- Prepare the lines and boat hook early
- Slow down well before reaching the mooring
- Discuss an escape plan before the approach
During Pickup
- Approach into wind/current when possible
- Keep communication simple
- Abort early if approach is unstable
4. Docking for Two:
- Plan before entering the marina
- Ready fenders and lines early
- Assign roles before starting
- Approach slowly and in control
Remember
- Slow is professional
- You can always go around and try again
- A calm crew makes docking easier
Cruising Couple Success Tips
? Practice together regularly ? Keep procedures simple ? Use checklists when needed ? Respect each other’s comfort level ? Discuss mistakes after docking—not during ? Enjoy the journey
Jeff & Jean Grossman
Jeff and Jean assist couples in realizing their sailing dreams with their company Two Can Sail. They work with one couple at a time to provide cruising lifestyle training including; boat shopping/purchase, surveying, and personal training aboard the couple’s boat. Jeff has been actively boating over 45 years, sailing as Captain since the age of 15. Jean has been sailing since she was12 years old on vessels ranging from sunfish to 80’ schooners. Jean is an Accredited Marine Surveyor (AMS), a member of the Society of Accredited Marine Surveyors (SAMS) and is ABYC Standards Certified. Jeff holds an Electrical/Computer Engineering degree and has worked with almost all forms of electronic navigation. Jeff is also a licensed Buyers Broker. Both Jeff and Jean are 100GT Masters, ASA Certified Sailing Instructors and together have sailed over 240 different models of sailboats including 51 models of cruising catamarans.